“My grandfather did not want me to go to school. He said
girls need not study. But my brother would go to school and I started to borrow
his books and read when no one was watching. My brother helped me a lot.” said
19-year old Sandhya.
Sandhya lives in a small village in Ajmer district of
Rajasthan with her parents, siblings and grandparents. She was one of the many
‘never been to school’ girls enrolled in Pratham’s Second Chance program. It is
not uncommon in many households of India to keep the girl child out of school.
These girls are expected to stay ‘safe’ at home and help with household chores.
Education is said to be ‘unnecessary’ for them. Very few girls in her dhaani
(hamlet) go to school. They help their parents on the farm every day. This made
the situation quite grim for her.
“So how did you convince your grandfather?” I inquired. “Some
people from Pratham came home and spoke to my parents and grandfather. That’s
how I was enrolled in the batch of 2015-16,” answered Sandhya.
Her grandfather was very unhappy with the thought of sending
her to complete 10th Grade. Sandhya and her parents were unsure of
how she will cope with the syllabus. Although Sandhya could recognize a few
words, her parents were skeptical. Her father was instrumental in ensuring that
she is enrolled in spite of everything. Her family would visit the Second
Chance centre every other week to keep a check on her. With time they learned
to trust their daughter and her capabilities. Meanwhile, Sandhya was working
hard to make up for all the lost time. With no formal schooling, each day meant
something new for her. The examination was another ballgame altogether but
Pratham’s technique of planning tests every month helped her adjust to the
thought of an exam.
This change in her opened her to several possibilities. She
passed 10th Grade with 67.55%. “My grandfather was so happy. He
distributed sweets on the day of my results,” said Sandhya with amusement.
Sandhya has enrolled for 12th Grade and is
pursuing a Diploma in basics of computer. She now works as a teacher in a
government school. “I am a part of the school committee that mobilizes children
who are out of school. We help them enroll in our school. I look after the
mid-day meal program in my school as well,” she added. She employs Pratham’s
activity-based learning method in her classroom. “I use mind maps to teach kids
and it works wonders,” she exclaimed.
Sandhya feels that staying at home for all those years
instilled a sense of fear in her and many other girls in her village. She would
not step out of home alone. But now she travels in and around her village and
is currently looking for a teaching position in a school in Jaipur city of
Rajasthan. She enjoys studying and plans to support herself with her own
income.
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